Luck Is A Loaded Word

Tired woman drinking coffee at a cluttered desk working late at night while a man works at a computer in the background, with notes and a notebook that reads “Late nights, Hard work, No shortcuts”

One of my biggest pet peeves is the phrase, “You’re so lucky!” Here’s what nobody calls ‘lucky’ in real time: the nights we were up until 11 pm or midnight after performing at a high level at our full-time jobs, raising teenagers, and then doing the second shift, which was building a business when there […]

Mentoring: Give It Away

At some point in every career, the question becomes unavoidable: am I here just to execute, or am I responsible for passing something on? Mentorship is often packaged as a noble duty or a shiny leadership merit badge. That framing misses the point. The actual “why” is less polished and far more practical. Mentoring is […]

Leadership: There’s No Place Like Sports, A Lesson from Big Joe

I am, unfortunately, a lifelong fan of the New York Jets. If losing truly builds character, then I have more than any one man deserves. Nothing better prepares you for life than rooting for a perennially losing sports team. The disappointments toughen you for whatever life has in store and remind you that tomorrow is […]